Workbook
The Invented Person
What happens when the person we are drawn to becomes someone we have, in part, invented? There may be a real relationship, with affection and a history neither person could have made alone, or there may have been one conversation followed by months of imagining what another would be like.
These studies use creative prompts to make some of our additions available to observe. You begin with a stranger and very little information, then spend time with someone you have already imagined at length. Alongside the imaginative writing, you keep a separate record of what you know from actual contact.
There is room here for the affection that was real and for the future that never became shared. Looking more carefully does not require you to become contemptuous of either person.
The studies
- The belongings
- The unfinished message
- The person you carry
- The return
- A coincidence
- Their ordinary Tuesday
- Three years later
- The conversation
- The object you would return
- The life you placed beside them
From the Workbook
Study 1: The belongings
You are sitting at a shared table in a quiet place. Someone has left a book with a cracked spine, a set of keys with a small blue keychain, an unfinished postcard and a single earring. You have not read the postcard. The person looking after the room tells you that the owner will return in about ten minutes. You have never met them.
Write for 3 minutes. What do you when you are alone with the belongings?
Let the owner return and find you there. Describe who appears and what happens between you.
Give yourself about 5 minutes to write what happens. Afterward, read the scene. Don't correct mis-spellings or word choices. Begin asking yourself questions like these:
- How did you feel beside the objects before there was anyone to respond to? Which one held your attention?
- Who did their owner become? Which object seemed to justify that addition, and what else could the same object have suggested?
- Who were you in relation to this person when they arrived? Find the moment that gave you that position.
Reading behind these ideas
- C. G. Jung, The Structure and Dynamics of the Psyche, Collected Works, volume 8, paragraphs 400 and 401. Jung describes developing an image through imaginative activity in several expressive forms. Read the excerpt
- James Hillman, An Inquiry into Image, Spring, 1977. His attention to an image in its particular context informs the discussion of looking before assigning symbolic meanings. Read the essay
- Yoram Kaufmann, The Way of the Image: The Orientational Approach to the Psyche, Zahav Books, 2009. A point of reference for considering images and orientation. Publisher information
- Emily A. Holmes and Andrew Mathews, Mental imagery and emotion: A special relationship?, Emotion, volume 5, issue 4, 2005, pages 489–497. This experimental study examines imagery and anxiety. Study and abstract
Conversations in Small Groups
The studies in this workbook also provide starting points for workshops and small group work. If you’d like to explore them with others, I’d be glad to hear from you.